The Journey
A couple of days ago, a friend shared with me how much she hated mirrors and reflections. For years she was so disgusted in her self that she avoided looking in mirrors and anything that could reflect her face. You can imagine how difficult it is. She was so full of hatred for her hair, her smile, her voice she was sick of everything about her. Ibukun was able to share this with me because few years back, she started a journey and is getting really close to her destination already. This is the journey of self-love. If you had asked me before if I loved myself, I will always reply saying yes. Even though sometimes, when I'm in bed I become depressed, consciously tormenting myself with thoughts like "I'm not good enough" "I cannot achieve this thing" "I don't like this and that" among other things. Then, I realized I was far from truly loving myself. Truth is, there are so many people out there struggling with these things and as I ear...